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Open AccessWhen the Father Does Not Come: Survival, Shame, Revenge, and the Theology of Divine Absence “You learn to lie. To the living, to the dead, to the devil himself” - Betty
Authors: Julian Ungar-Sargon.
Abstract
The Good Liar (2019) appears to be a thriller about an elderly confidence man and his mark. Its final reversal discloses a different subject: a woman who was raped as a girl in wartime Germany, whose father was executed on her rapist’s denunciation, whose mother and sisters died, and who, sixty-six years later, constructs the judgment that neither family, state, history nor heaven supplied.
This essay reads the film as a parable/mashal of survival when no one comes. It argues that Lili’s deception belongs to a recognized rabbinic category, the lie told upward by the endangered, and that her shame, her guilt toward the dead, and her revenge are theological injuries as well as psychological ones. The absent father of the film opens onto the biblical fathers who fail violated daughters (Jacob with Dinah, David with Tamar) and onto the liturgical Father and King whose face is hidden.
Through hester panim, the Scroll of Esther, Job, Lamentations, the Akedah, the Shekhinah in exile, and the unreconciled voices of Rubenstein, Fackenheim, Wiesel and Levinas, the essay proposes that Lili’s revenge is a human performance of the divine din that history withheld: a counterfeit eschatology that can expose but cannot restore. The conclusion is anti- theodic.
The film neither proves God present nor explains God’s absence. It shows a survivor whose continued life exceeds both her violator and her vengeance, and it leaves the clinician with one obligation: to be the witness who arrives late and believes.
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